Living Room Conversations: Civil Discourse at George Fox University

Submitted by Madeline Grace Teeter

The first Civil Discourse meeting was held in the Student Life Office at George Fox University (GFU) on Sept. 30 at 8 p.m. The goal of this meeting? To open a safe space for students to discuss politics while fostering respect for the beliefs of others.

The meeting was led by Jere Witherspoon, the student care and student life operations specialist, who explained: “[Civil discourse] entails having the capacity to respectfully disagree with people while also appreciating their viewpoints, listening intently, and taking into account their thoughts and feelings.”

Witherspoon described how GFU approached her about starting the Living Room Conversations program. Passionate about the subject, she agreed to help. “Quite frankly, I would love to sit down with a group of people and discuss politics,” she said, noting that preparations for the discussions began last spring.

The meeting had three participants, a smaller turnout than Witherspoon had anticipated. “We need to get this information out to the community,” Witherspoon said, expressing hope that better promotion would boost attendance in the future.

The meeting room was arranged in a circle, with couches and chairs surrounding a table of cookies. Students were encouraged to grab snacks and drinks throughout the meeting, contributing to the relaxed and welcoming atmosphere.

As an icebreaker, Witherspoon asked, “What influences in your life have contributed to one of your values today?” Each participant shared a personal value and explained how they came to hold it. Witherspoon noted that the group found common ground in their responses, which she emphasized was an important first step in civil discourse.

Witherspoon also highlighted the value of asking questions during discussions. “I have strong feelings, but I don’t have the knowledge. I just ask questions,” she said. “Understanding another person’s perspective starts with a humble curiosity.”

The next meeting is scheduled for Oct. 29 from 8p.m.-9 p.m.